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Saturday, Apr. 22nd 2017 3:11 PM


My professor asked the class last night about scoreboards. “How do you keep score in your life, in your profession, in your organization? How do you know if you’re winning? How do you define ‘winning’?”

Who can forget Charlie Sheen’s crazy video rants from a few years ago? “WINNING!” became a catchword for a while, said in Charlie’s tone of delivery. Though we repeated it sort of as a joke because Charlie clearly was NOT winning at the time.

In his book, “The Rhythm of Life: Living Every Day with Passion and Purpose,” Matthew Kelly said: “Albert Einstein wrote, ‘Everybody is a genius. But if you judge a fish by its ability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.’ The question I have for you at this point of our journey together is, ‘What is your genius?'”

I have to admit, I keep score when I play sports, play chess, and engage in thumb wars. Outside of that, I’m not too competitive. I lived happily and successfully in a Marine Corps barracks, eating in a Marine Corps chow hall, and driving a horrible little 4 cylinder Mustang II. What you live in, where you eat, and what you drive is of zero importance to me.

I don’t judge you on those things. I judge YOU on how I judge MYSELF. How do I know if I’m “winning” or if I’m successful?

For me, it’s the answer to a few simple questions: “Did I live with passion today? Did I help someone become healthier, fitter, or happier today? Did I make someone laugh today? Did I make someone think today? Was the corner of the world I live in made better by what I contributed to it today? Did I learn something new today?” If I can answer “yes” to those questions, then for me, that’s winning. For me, that’s success.

In a conversation I had with some boot campers last night, I was reminded that our fitness experiment is a “superior product” because we’re the only program that addresses ALL FIVE aspects of fitness: 1) Muscular strength and stamina, 2) Cardio-respiratory strength and stamina, 3) Flexibility, 4) Balance, 5) Agility. And though it’s not recognized by exercise science, I like to add 6) Comedy.
Some programs are heavy on weight lifting (no pun intended), others are cardio intensive, and still others are all about flexibility or balance. But there is no other program in our corner of Memphis that does what we do. And for me, that’s winning! That’s success!

I like what Steve Jobs said in his commencement address at Stanford: “Your time is limited; so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of others’ opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.”

Living with intention, living conscientiously, and keeping score my way is how I approach life. How do you know if YOU are winning? How do you keep score?

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